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		<title>Salon: Cary Tennis</title>
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			<media:description type="plain">He binge-drinks -- but never in the U.S.!</media:description>
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			<title>He binge-drinks -- but never in the U.S.!</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 03:10:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<media:description type="plain">No one can understand an orphan</media:description>
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			<title>No one can understand an orphan</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 03:18:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<media:description type="plain">Mom, lawyer, musician?</media:description>
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			<title>Mom, lawyer, musician?</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 03:18:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/07/08/music_mom/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>I have very little time but love playing the guitar!
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			<media:description type="plain">Can a kid own a house?</media:description>
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			<title>Can a kid own a house?</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 03:15:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<media:description type="plain">My boyfriend criticizes everything!</media:description>
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			<title>My boyfriend criticizes everything!</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 03:10:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<media:description type="plain">I got my act together but my wife is still mad</media:description>
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			<title>I got my act together but my wife is still mad</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 03:15:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/07/02/marriage_trouble/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>I realized I had to change and I did. But now I find out she's been cheating!
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			<media:description type="plain">Better world, or waste of time?</media:description>
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			<title>Better world, or waste of time?</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 03:21:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/07/01/better_world/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>I volunteer but don't enjoy it
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			<media:description type="plain">I found a girl in my son's bed</media:description>
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			<title>I found a girl in my son's bed</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 03:16:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<media:description type="plain">I studied print journalism: Now what?</media:description>
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			<title>I studied print journalism: Now what?</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 03:29:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/29/journalism/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>I did internships, made connections, got clips, etc., but my parents are still paying my cellphone bill
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			<media:description type="plain">My wife is bipolar. Should I leave and take the kids?</media:description>
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			<title>My wife is bipolar. Should I leave and take the kids?</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 03:17:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<media:description type="plain">Mom says dump the boyfriend or leave home!</media:description>
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			<title>Mom says dump the boyfriend or leave home!</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 03:05:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<media:description type="plain">Should I leave L.A. after one year?</media:description>
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			<title>Should I leave L.A. after one year?</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 03:19:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/24/living_in_la/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>I've been trying to break into the film biz but I'm thinking about giving up and moving home
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			<media:description type="plain">I used to be a jerk but now I've changed</media:description>
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			<title>I used to be a jerk but now I've changed</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 03:18:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/23/former_jerk/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>Some folks would still like to stick a fork in my arm -- do I seek them out and apologize?
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			<media:description type="plain">I'm stuck in Atlanta, he's stuck in Seattle</media:description>
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			<title>I'm stuck in Atlanta, he's stuck in Seattle</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:20:00 PDT</pubDate>
			<link>http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/22/atlanta_surgeon/index.html?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</link>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/22/atlanta_surgeon/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>My work is here, his work is there: How will we ever get together?
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			<media:description type="plain">My ex grew her hair long for the new guy</media:description>
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			<title>My ex grew her hair long for the new guy</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 03:20:00 PDT</pubDate>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/19/grew_her_hair_long/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>I begged her to grow her hair long when we were together, but she  kept it short. Why has she grown it out now?
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			<media:description type="plain">My 16-year-old is out of control</media:description>
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			<title>My 16-year-old is out of control</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 03:18:00 PDT</pubDate>
			<link>http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/18/16_year_old/index.html?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</link>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/18/16_year_old/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>She hid her boyfriend in her bedroom closet until we went to bed
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			<media:description type="plain">At age 5 I was traumatized by an End Times movie</media:description>
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			<title>At age 5 I was traumatized by an End Times movie</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 03:17:00 PDT</pubDate>
			<link>http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/17/end_times_trauma/index.html?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</link>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/17/end_times_trauma/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>My church showed me a horror flick that left me terrified for all who are not yet saved
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			<media:description type="plain">Since you asked ...</media:description>
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			<title>He e-mailed us to say, "I'm dating both of you"</title>
			<dc:creator>Cary Tennis</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 03:19:00 PDT</pubDate>
			<link>http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/16/wants_both_women/index.html?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</link>
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			<comments>http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/16/wants_both_women/view/?source=rss&amp;aim=/mwt/col/tenn</comments><description>I thought I liked this guy, but his message to me and the other woman he's dating seemed pretty tacky.
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