http://dir.salon.com/topics/cary_tennis/?source=rss&aim=/topics/cary_tennis/ Since You Asked... en-us Copyright 2010 Salon.com. http://images.salon.com/src/rdf_salonlogo.gif http://dir.salon.com/topics/cary_tennis/?source=rss&aim=/topics/cary_tennis/ Mon, 14 Dec 2009 17:15:00 PST I'm going in for surgery: Wish me luck! Cary Tennis Mon, 14 Dec 2009 17:15:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/14/surgery/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/14/surgery/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/14/surgery/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennIt's time to turn it over. It's time to just heal <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3ZiZFXtyEW5FrTr0zFkdXC1sWYQ/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3ZiZFXtyEW5FrTr0zFkdXC1sWYQ/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3ZiZFXtyEW5FrTr0zFkdXC1sWYQ/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3ZiZFXtyEW5FrTr0zFkdXC1sWYQ/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/Tr63QAjsHig" height="1" width="1"/> What's going on with me -- the meta version Cary Tennis Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:01:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/13/surgery_update/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/13/surgery_update/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/13/surgery_update/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennI'm thinking about thinking about talking about what's going on with me ... and it's rendered me speechless <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/c39q8Gl02WJEQgJMugpv1h8V39c/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/c39q8Gl02WJEQgJMugpv1h8V39c/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/c39q8Gl02WJEQgJMugpv1h8V39c/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/c39q8Gl02WJEQgJMugpv1h8V39c/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/cOPzgFX_k80" height="1" width="1"/> The bride fired her bridesmaid -- me! Cary Tennis Thu, 10 Dec 2009 17:05:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/10/maid_of_honor/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/10/maid_of_honor/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/10/maid_of_honor/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennI guess I'm guilty of conduct unbecoming a bridesmaid -- but I thought she chose me for who I am <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/qqoRSWaCQz93nYZ20cZowbt-GIA/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/qqoRSWaCQz93nYZ20cZowbt-GIA/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/qqoRSWaCQz93nYZ20cZowbt-GIA/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/qqoRSWaCQz93nYZ20cZowbt-GIA/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/VDSu4orPwFw" height="1" width="1"/> Should I wait for him to propose? Cary Tennis Wed, 09 Dec 2009 17:10:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/09/popping_the_question/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/09/popping_the_question/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/09/popping_the_question/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennI don't want to be pushy, but I want to have the conversation <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PJp0XEv7Z5APj_OTYtLNeWUlmJw/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PJp0XEv7Z5APj_OTYtLNeWUlmJw/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PJp0XEv7Z5APj_OTYtLNeWUlmJw/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PJp0XEv7Z5APj_OTYtLNeWUlmJw/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/D4O2WpGRx4k" height="1" width="1"/> How do we find our way to forgiveness? Cary Tennis Tue, 08 Dec 2009 17:09:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/08/forgiveness/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/08/forgiveness/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/08/forgiveness/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennWhy does it take a serious disease to make us rethink our lives? <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d6f4TrfR9sXycN75LFjZKfOdEds/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d6f4TrfR9sXycN75LFjZKfOdEds/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d6f4TrfR9sXycN75LFjZKfOdEds/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d6f4TrfR9sXycN75LFjZKfOdEds/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/WHmzFUnE-4c" height="1" width="1"/> My brother-in-law has been cheating on my sister Cary Tennis Mon, 07 Dec 2009 17:08:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/07/brother_in_law/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/07/brother_in_law/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/07/brother_in_law/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennHow can I look him in the eye now that she's told me what he's been up to? <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/vXPUjryhKtX1tebcXzwi59gMjIM/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/vXPUjryhKtX1tebcXzwi59gMjIM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/vXPUjryhKtX1tebcXzwi59gMjIM/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/vXPUjryhKtX1tebcXzwi59gMjIM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/mSuaxxltjFo" height="1" width="1"/> I won't call you back if you don't leave a message Cary Tennis Mon, 07 Dec 2009 00:01:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/07/cellphone_etiquette/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/07/cellphone_etiquette/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/07/cellphone_etiquette/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennMy sisters hang up and expect me to call back. Why don't they follow the rule? <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-aGW2etpd5zYXwfP3R9Z4VQmzGQ/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-aGW2etpd5zYXwfP3R9Z4VQmzGQ/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-aGW2etpd5zYXwfP3R9Z4VQmzGQ/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-aGW2etpd5zYXwfP3R9Z4VQmzGQ/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/cpvyCa2nC-A" height="1" width="1"/> Will the CT scan find my lost wallet? Cary Tennis Thu, 03 Dec 2009 17:04:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/03/medical_imaging/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/03/medical_imaging/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/03/medical_imaging/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennWhat are those radiology technicians staring at so intently? It makes one nervous <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/DQLgG00x__23P8uZVaS-uBfKeFw/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/DQLgG00x__23P8uZVaS-uBfKeFw/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/DQLgG00x__23P8uZVaS-uBfKeFw/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/DQLgG00x__23P8uZVaS-uBfKeFw/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/e0epw7UAaz8" height="1" width="1"/> Cancer means you have to answer the phone Cary Tennis Wed, 02 Dec 2009 17:03:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/02/pain_in_sacrum/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/02/pain_in_sacrum/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/02/pain_in_sacrum/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennThere's no hiding when the doctors call <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LbvnDftFuRbT1OKMSa4H--mGWG0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LbvnDftFuRbT1OKMSa4H--mGWG0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LbvnDftFuRbT1OKMSa4H--mGWG0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/LbvnDftFuRbT1OKMSa4H--mGWG0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/ZuRn-gax7T4" height="1" width="1"/> How to spend many hours lying down Cary Tennis Tue, 01 Dec 2009 16:02:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/01/surgery_update/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/01/surgery_update/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/12/01/surgery_update/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennIn which surgery is finally scheduled and the author contemplates his unenviable (supine) position <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/NnB4zonlZOyIBYx0hZVDZFajadA/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/NnB4zonlZOyIBYx0hZVDZFajadA/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/NnB4zonlZOyIBYx0hZVDZFajadA/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/NnB4zonlZOyIBYx0hZVDZFajadA/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/SPB87bqUv24" height="1" width="1"/> My partner won't stop drinking Cary Tennis Mon, 30 Nov 2009 17:31:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/11/30/alcoholic_boyfriend/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/11/30/alcoholic_boyfriend/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/11/30/alcoholic_boyfriend/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennI finally told him to leave. Do we have a future? <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3wt7jdnVOKSUrpVKPv5dyEuxxac/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3wt7jdnVOKSUrpVKPv5dyEuxxac/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3wt7jdnVOKSUrpVKPv5dyEuxxac/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/3wt7jdnVOKSUrpVKPv5dyEuxxac/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/pGEo8TH21u8" height="1" width="1"/> My second novel was rejected and I'm in despair Cary Tennis Sun, 29 Nov 2009 18:01:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/11/29/rejected_novel/index.html?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tenn http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/11/29/rejected_novel/index.html http://letters.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/11/29/rejected_novel/view/?source=rss&aim=/mwt/col/tennI spent five years writing this, and now my editor's ditched me! <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_QiVZzaS8nOQggFpOHMko5lwbZk/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_QiVZzaS8nOQggFpOHMko5lwbZk/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_QiVZzaS8nOQggFpOHMko5lwbZk/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_QiVZzaS8nOQggFpOHMko5lwbZk/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/salon/tennis/~4/fpy905HKlnM" height="1" width="1"/>